I found a way actually. If you talk to a wandering minstrel/traveler and ask him about the one you are courting, he will tell you if she is betrothed to anyone and you can choose the option to hunt him down and duel him. I just did so and won back my secured position. hah, wow, just in the nick of time. Repeat if necessary. Congrats, your spot just opened up! Don’t propose to her while she’s on campaign. Everyone will turn you down if you do that. Wait till she’s in a castle or something, not roaming the map with her warband or in an army. Of course she’s gonna turn your thirsty ass down in front of her men. The first step to get married in Mount and Blade 2 Bannerlord is to find a potential spouse. The spouse can be any member of any faction in the game - the easiest way to find a specific character is to use the encyclopedia (the N key in campaign mode) and check the last known location of that NPC. Download the dev console there. Go to Users\xxxxxx\Documents\Mount and Blade II Bannerlord\Configs\engine_config.txt Set cheat_mode = 0 to cheat_mode = 1 Save it Enable dev console mod in MB launcher Go in game, if you're on 1.1.0 press ctrl+alt+~ (qwerty keyboard) In the command box, type : campaign.change_main_hero_age 30 Or whatever age you Once you've gotten your guys married, there's no need to keep loading the mod with your game. Your marriages from the mod, as far as I can tell, are no different than those you'd be able to get through a non-modded game. It's only the ability to arrange the marriage that's covered by the mod. Ah, family—life’s natural plot twist. Having children in Bannerlord isn’t just about diversifying gameplay; it’s about leaving your mark on a turbulent world. And that, folks, is a legacy worth fighting for. First Steps: Getting Married Choose Your Partner Wisely. So, you’ve made up your mind to jump into the realm of matrimony, huh? Im guessing characters die of old age around 50-60 I just wish they added an age slider so I could start at 18-20 because starting at 30 puts you closer to old age. Plus it doesnt make that much sense to start at age 30 and have basically no skills unless you were a farmer or something but most people don't pick that family start. #2. AnandaTheDestroyer. • 2 yr. ago. Go to the fief you want to break someone out of, go to the keep menu, then prison, it shows all prisoners in the top right tab (like notables). there should be an option to start prison break, click it and select a prisoner from the list, then press the option to start the prisoner break and you should spawn pBkJGD.